How kids learn…don’t relinquish your parental roles…

How kids learn…don’t relinquish your parental roles…
We often pride ourselves with our efforts to educate our kids, and we do our best to send them to schools that are known for their good facilities and excellent credentials of teachers/professors. There are things, that we should take note in this regard, however. I noted that in some schools, if not all, the influence of peers and peer pressures play a lot. Children do not learn only from their teachers and school administrators. They also learn from all the people around them. In fact, in many cases, children learn more from their classmates and schoolmates than from their teachers, when it comes to socialization, and human inter-action. Teachers normally stay within their subject matter, and spend little time on the personal relations of kids. Besides, there is only one teacher for several kids during classes. They are busy, too and they have their own problems as well. No wonder, the peer pressures and influences of people around them and outside the classrooms are playing a greater role in their learning process. Do we have programs in the school campuses that help our kids develop good characters? I think so. The supervision and discipline of kids as practiced before, however, have changed a lot. I went to a sectarian school from elementary school through college, and I noticed, that the kind of school supervision over the students, have mellowed down over the years. In one PTA (Parents and Teachers Association) meeting I attended as a parent, I learned from the school administrators that they believe the kids will soar to greater heights with the removal of the old school ways, and giving the kids more freedom. Are we finding these principles more effective and more sound than the old ways? I don’t think so. I think, we have produced just as good students before, as we have them now, if not better. In view of this, I believe that values and character training should more be developed stronger at home now than in school. If kids have the proper rearing at home, and if parents spend more time with their kids, they would more likely withstand the inappropriate influences outside the home. The school as many have thought of before, is not the main place of character development support for kids under the present scenario. Parents now have more to do with kids than what it used to be. Parents should therefore not relinquish parental roles to educational institutions. People there are just as busy as parents are.
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Kids and the street curfew!

Kids and the street curfew!
One of the best ways to keep children away from the bad influence of other kids, and their non-wholesome activities is to keep kids busy in school and to take them out of the streets, by imposing a curfew after school, and keep them busy with their assignments or household responsibilities. Most kids who are often out in the streets for a long time, end up being influenced by street boys and girls much more and learn many things that they should not be doing at their young age. Bad habits are difficult to change, so take care that these are not learned by young kids.
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Prayer and inner Peace!

Approaching God in Prayer and inner Peace!
Man needs to approach God from time to time. It is necessary. You may not realize it sometimes, but having a regular schedule everyday for this is good and helpful for everyone. Doing so, enables you to attain peace of mind. Do you want to enjoy peace of mind? Try doing your prayer time more regularly. Set a quality time to talk and listen to God almighty on a regular basis, if you have not done this yet.

Do you remember God only, when you are in deep trouble? Or only, when it is convenient for you? Well, please don’t. It helps you a lot when you have a more regular quality time talking and listening to each other, just like having it as a family affair, where husbands need to talk to wives regularly, and children need to talk to parents regularly and vise versa. You don’t have to believe my words for it. Just try your best to do it and see for yourself ,how you transform your life and family.
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